10 things that my Pugs taught me about LIFE

1.  You can always resolve issues through eye contact. There are no better ways in resolving issues by looking to somebody's eyes. It is the window of the soul and expresses the truth rather listening what the tongue says.





2.  During a fight, no one is small or fragile; it always depend on how and to whom you should bark. Do not under estimate one's strength through its size but always weigh a person on what he says and how he says. A good surgeon may incise carefully & meticulously but a better surgeon  incise with precision and efficiency knowing that every minute counts and every action matters.

3. If in doubt, smell first. Do listen to your doubts, it is there for a reason but don't let it engulf you.

4. There is no better stress reliever than RUNNING, so RUN as fast as you can. Running through your stresses and emotional voids helps you to increae circulation thus producing more oxygen carrying blood cells in your body. Good oxygenation helps your body to function properly.

5. Don't let anyone stop you at anything especially if it makes you happy. Do not listen to nay-sayers and pessimist. It is not your problem if they have bad things to say, its theirs. Its not your attitude that is being measured but theirs in every word that they utter against you.

6. Be proud of who you are; so love the natural you, even your own smell. 't Our generation was the most lie to  because everything has been a commodity even personality has been commercialize as well. Everything has not been enough.."My skin is not light enough.." .." My hair is not straight enough.." " My weight is not enough.." " My height is not enough.."...even the word enough is not enough for everyone. Be proud of your skin.. be proud of your heritage, of your nose, of your eyes, of your weight. Nobody will be good enough for you except YOURSELF. Be PROUD of who you are.

7. Sleep soundly even snore loudly. You`re body needs rest as much as it needs nourishment. Remember to take enough 8 hour sleep, a well rested body is a well thinking mind. A well thinking mind is a well feeling heart.

8. Breathe easy as if there is no tomorrow. Breathe... remember to breathe even at hours of incessant pressure or purest amount of joy. Life is meant to be  breathe in not breathe out. In the present day, people work  for the sake of working, for the sake of necessity ( I'm not against this:) But people tend to forget to breathe that they don't  notice things around.. that beautiful things are happening everyday that they don't take time to look at it.  BREATHE is the cheapest thing one can buy for himself to live for the fullest.

9. Rejoice in every moment you have, even in simple ways as sitting.Every moment matters and there is no single day that corresponds as BORING in your life. Every moment is an opportunity to rejoice even as simple as sitting around the corner.

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10. Do not be afraid to love or care even it was not reciprocated. Remember, you have so much to give.Every person is a vessel of love despite the hurts and failures that we have encountered in life; we are still bounty in terms of giving love. Give away love and you will receive love hundred folds in return.


 

I have 4 female pugs & 2 male pugs at home. They are adorable dogs & not easy to take care of despite of their short hair.  They are a ball of energy in many ways I can't count but they are loving and fiercely loyal.  Their world lights up even in small attention but give loads of affection in return.

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More than 2 mos ago, I was hanging in a steep cliff..hanging on my dear life and what was let of it. My ex fiance broke up with me, canceled the engagement and the wedding this coming December. I don't know what to do, where to go and how I could handle this. People around talked so much, giving out opinions, straightening out what actually happened and as for me I don't know how to begin as to what I felt. Everything was volatile like a fuming gas suffocating my soul I wanted to get out. One bad thing led to another bad event then another bad choices.

There was one thought in my mind: I don't want to allow these circumstances to ruin my life. My only option: PACK MY BAGS & LEAVE EVERYTHING BEHIND!

I don't know where to go nor what to do but I need to face this as fearlessly as I can. Either way part of it was my decisions and I should straighten out my life in my terms. So I need to LET EVERYTHING GO. I have let go of things that remind me, every single detail about the wedding I have canceled everything. When I was comfortable enough, I have confronted my own pain, my seething anger and grinding disappointment. I have recognized that my self esteem was crushed to the core and my sanity is in danger level. I have to deal with this on my own but for now I need to LET GO.

Then one morning I woke up feeling lighter but not better. I began to pray it was the intimate prayers I have made so far. I am allowing GOD to work for me..LETTING GOD and his will prevail. I asked him for guidance and more strength as I deal with my life. I would like him to be my partner instead him on top of me. I wanted him closer and yearned for his comfort.And I have prayed for the people who was hurt because of these even the man I love, yes! I have prayed for his well being.

Then changes came, I looked to positive and things began to be positive. I changed internally then changes externally came. I lost much weight and my skin looked radiant. I love how I look nowadays and people start complimenting. Men are attracted and women kept on admiring. I know a healthy dose of positivism and cheery spirit has been my everyday medication. And it is absolutely 100% potent!

Then things that I want seem to come to me without me asking, I have a new job( contract signing soon) which nurtures what I am good at. In the manner that I want and the vicinity that I want with salary expectations that I desire. People with good standing starts to come by without me asking.They come knocking all at the same time. A new business idea came to mind that I want to flourish in the future and the new zest in painting that I have never felt before. Everything in my life actually transpired the way I wanted it and in the time I wanted it.

As of relationship, I know deep down what I am doing is actually good for me and I am allowing him to do what is actually good for him. That certainty is liberating and free me of regret if I am actually doing the right thing. If we were right for each other, there will be a right time.

Parting words?

Don't make excuses in your life when changes comes knocking right at your doorstep..don't ever say "wait.", "just a second" or "in a while.." GRAB IT! Don't let the things of the moment stop you for experiencing the life that you have always wanted and dreamed of.

DO NOT LET CIRCUMSTANCES OF YOUR LIFE TAKE CHARGE.

CHANGE THE WAY YOU BEHAVE AND THE CIRCUMSTANCES WILL CHANGE.

Make your partner and he will exceed all of your expectations.

LET GO AND LET GOD WORKS.

you live only once, BE FEARLESS.